Letting Go of a Toxic Friend Who Has Been Benefiting from My Trauma

just straight up block them and get rid of all reminders of them

Thank you guys ❤️ Im trying. I just wanna be happy with good friends who want to have a healthy relationship not whatever the fuck they want that causes this.

it's okay to acknowlege in your heart that they may be dear to you for the rest of your life-- despite how they treated you. letting go is a long process. don't feel guilty, but you have to acknowlege the lost love in your heart before you can move on for better relationships that will treat you worthwhile (in my experience)

i would say block them everywhere possible so they can't find you if they decide its time to be friends again ? at least as a first step

So you haven't heard from them in a year? I'd say you're pretty cut off from them. I've cut out both friends and family. I focus on the relief I feel not having to deal with their toxicity. I think of all the nice thoughts I can have now. It also helps to have a support system that can help pick up the slack from the cut relationship

Well in pagan and when I want to let go of someone I would do a cord cutting ritual but everyone does it differently. I don’t know how to let go of someone any other way