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Torii

824d

So my best friend who was like a sister to me blocked me last night on all social media and on text messages. What do I do now? How do I cope with this because right now I want craw in a hole and never come out.

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    • ChronicWitch2.0

      824d

      I don’t know the whole situation to know what’s happening, but sometimes I get super stressed and end up blocking people bc I feel like I’m going to end up mentally hurting them or I feel like I’m too much of a burden. Maybe your friend isn’t doing well mentally and she don’t know how to handle it. It’s a super hard situation to be in. You deserve to heal from this. It was not right of her to do. She could have talked to you about what was bothering her. Sometimes I find that writing out a letter of what you want to say to her but not sending it helps. Just to sort out your feelings

    • Torii

      823d

      It’s just feels like I should have known then I could have done something

    • whitephantom

      824d

      If she cut ties with all the mutual friends simultaneously, then it most certainly is her problem and not you.

    • Torii

      824d

      The thing is like she cut ties with all of our mutual friends but we don’t know why its just that we were like sisters and she out of town with her family so I can’t show up at her house and talk to her about ig

    • whitephantom

      824d

      Ah yes. My bff did this to me in HS. Eleven years later, we are friends again. If it is meant to be, you will reconnect. If not, then I hope you find a new friend. I like the idea someone had about writing a letter. You can even mail it through the ol' USPS if you feel inclined. I also knocked on someone's door once (somebody else). They didn't answer and I ran away crying, but you could try that if you're brave enough. It really hurts when you know they're home though. 😕 If you have any mutual friends, you can try to reach out that way. Maybe they could give you a clue to what happened?

    • ChronicWitch2.0

      824d

      I don’t know the whole situation to know what’s happening, but sometimes I get super stressed and end up blocking people bc I feel like I’m going to end up mentally hurting them or I feel like I’m too much of a burden. Maybe your friend isn’t doing well mentally and she don’t know how to handle it. It’s a super hard situation to be in. You deserve to heal from this. It was not right of her to do. She could have talked to you about what was bothering her. Sometimes I find that writing out a letter of what you want to say to her but not sending it helps. Just to sort out your feelings

    • suffocait

      824d

      hiiii one of my closest friends did the same thing to me when i just started college. It hurt A LOT when it first happened, it’s almost 4 years later and i only think about her in passing. you’re probably heard this before but, Time heals all wounds 💕

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