Struggling with the aftermath of grooming

You need to defend your mind like in Harry Potter. You are strong and you actually have control just grab the wheel and go back to the basics. Pain is a part of life, not life entirely. When anything cause you pain let it know! Also instruct how you want to be treated. If you think this person is a danger in anyway contact someone to help get them help. Keep the community safe. Always trust your gut.

It is NOT your fault in the slightest. The person who groomed you has the ability to make their own choices. They chose to do this on their own free will. Dont feel guilt from somebody elses actions. Please message me if you feel comfortable to do so!

First of all, getting groomed is not something you can be "at fault" for. You were taken advantage of in a situation where there was a power imbalance and not recognizing it earlier isn't something to feel guilty for. If you haven't spoken to a therapist I definitely think you should, but a first step might be to get a few treats that used to make you excited or happy to eat.

I promise that whatever happened was NOT your fault. I am so sorry that you had an experience like that. Please reach out to someone you trust for help on working through that <3 sending hugs