Neither of my queer-platonic partners said goodbye to me this morning before leaving for work... and i have a fear of abandonment... and they've always said goodbye before leaving.... what a great way to start my day.
Anxiety (Including GAD)
Maybe their morning was hectic today? Do they take they breaks at a regular time that you know of? Maybe you can try distract yourself until they are able to respond to any texts and reassure you that they aren't leaving you and that everything is okay ^^
oh they're never rushing unless they wake up late. I could hear them this morning. I easily wake up, and not one time did they come in to say goodbye.
Tell them that it is worrying you
I would, but what's the point if they maybe don't think they *have* to say goodbye? I don't want to sound like a sick puppy..
the little things can cause the most anxiety. Tell them this. Talk about your anxiety. Make them aware of how you feel. Confide it the one who you feel is more understanding and ask for their help to explain it to your other partner(s).
I would mention when you see them next that you noticed they didn’t say goodbye today and really would like them to always say goodbye when they leave because it makes you feel loved and you love seeing them before they go for the day
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