Feeling Disrespected by My Mother

This is something my mom does that I hate. Overload me with a bunch of baseless, hurtful assumptions and then always, ALWAYS act like the victim when I get upset. Saying stuff like "I don't understand how everything is an attack to you" is a really weird way to pronounce "I refuse to see things from your point of view and I don't intend to change". It's one of the reasons I have anxiety, because having someone who's supposed to be a role model constantly trying to burn into you that your thoughts and feelings are wrong, it's very hurtful and it does do some very serious long term damage. And if that wasn't bad enough, my mom is a therapist. So she knows what she's doing. :(

Well I'm proud of you! Yay! You got 9 dollars! Lol I'd be excited too. I know it's hard because I deal with an angry dad who's always on me about something so small. BUT recently I've been trying to not get so angry (easier said than done) at his remarks because it saves my mental health. Instead of screaming back or raising my voice I simply respond back with a question which confuses them and makes them wish they said nothing at all😭 some people don't grasp the concept of " if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all" words do hurt, especially the ones of those we care about and maybe want praise from. I'm sure it would have felt nice for her to say she was proud of and happy for you :) it's not your fault, when we deal with it on a daily basis we become fed up. We just want respect. <3

It’s not your fault. After all that you should be angry because it’s completely uncalled for