Struggling with Day-to-Day Tasks

I have been struggling with doing the dishes for about a month. I posted here a week ago and everyone was super nice and helpful but they still aren't done. My husband says "it's too much" and won't even help me do them. So I called my mom. oh lord. She told me it was ridiculous that I needed help when i should be able to do it by myself. But she's coming tomorrow to help me. I just hate how low she makes me feel when I already feel bad about it. (Shes not normally like this, shes normally very accepting of my disabilities, its just when it comes to keeping my house clean) I told her it was my depression that made the pile so high and my anxiety that makes it unbearable to conquer but she doesn't understand and just assumes I'm lazy. I can't afford to pay someone to do them or I would have. It would have saved me the embarrassment of that phone call to mom and the embarrassment of her coming over tomorrow.

Struggling with Simple Tasks and Energy Drain

how do you get house hold chores done with no motivation or energy to do anything? it is going on a month for me since I have been able to do chores