How do I move on from a traumatic breakup?

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I do not know. Sometimes i read these posts and they are the life of me… but like in the past bc now im over it. I broke up with someone in high school once fast forward now i am 20 and i still think about her. The last thing i told her was that i had a funny dream with her and another friend where there was like cake everywhere and she just disappeared so i think i got blocked 😥 at first i it was weird but then i was like okie. Bc i have anxiety attachment style so like i just couldnt be near her anyway. I read that scientists claim crushes last 4 months then 2 years in the subconscious mind after that. So time heals all wounds basically

Find another resource for your emotional needs. I'm going through something similar, talk therapy is very helpful to get yourself to feel comfortable with the newfound independence, it's so not easy, but the more you can rely on yourself, and have a safe private place to process, the better things will get. It takes time, but please take them out of your plan, whoever they are. They're not assisting, just keeping you in the same place.

You have every right to hate them if they did something unforgivable to hurt you. I’d suggest surrounding yourself with a close group of friends that can make you feel whole again. If friends aren’t enough try meeting other people and who knows? Maybe you can find someone that’s way better than them. If you feel like you can’t find a partner on your own ask your friends for help!

You need to find friends that's gonna listen to you and you're emotional needs. Also never go back to people that hurt you, he can't be friend. You went through crazy with him. Why have him there, cut you're ties. Find better people, just as friends. You'll find love in the right time. You need to focus on you're heart first.