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sadielove87

617d

I have recently gone through a break up as of this morning and I can't find any joy in anything and feel dull. all I want is for him to get over whatever it is because this isn't the first time. I'm just at a complete loss on how to handle it this time

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    • Anthea

      617d

      @Fernclover yep. my relationship of two and a half years ended about a month ago, right after another really close friend got broken up with. it's hard

    • hippiehuman

      616d

      Also going through a break up and struggling to keep the distance from my ex as we are toxic and not in a good place to continue the relationship

    • Pisforpotato

      616d

      I know it may seem redundant, but it really does go away after a while. However, I’m the type of person who needs help along the way. If left to my own devices, my break up would have been REALLY bad on me. I created a new friendship with a guy who just wanted to support me and make me happy, be there for me, all that jazz. I told him all the time it was strictly platonic, and he knew I still had feelings for my ex, holding out hope he’d come back. I’m that timeframe, I ended up falling in love with that guy, and now we’re married as of this year. I didn’t necessarily replace my ex, but I gave myself a chance to be happy with someone who actually cared about me.

    • Ponyboy333

      616d

      Same situation with me as well. I’ve found surrounding myself with close friends to have an honest conversation about the break up was therapeutic for me. The first week after a break up can be pretty tough. Feel free to message me, you’re not alone in this, okay?

    • iloveicecream

      617d

      I’m so sorry, it is important to remember that these feelings and this stage of life is temporary!!!!! you may feel horrible today, and that is okay, but know that it isn’t gonna last forever. you will feel better and get to enjoy things again! just take it day by day, feel your emotions, but focus on doing things that make you happy ❤️

    • Fernclover

      617d

      It’ll get better it takes time, I got broken up with in may and I’m still grieving

      • Anthea

        617d

        @Fernclover yep. my relationship of two and a half years ended about a month ago, right after another really close friend got broken up with. it's hard

    • Jude_the_dude

      617d

      Hang in there

    • Anthea

      617d

      aw man i'm sorry :( i feel like everyone is breaking up recently it sucks just know you're not alone <3

      • sadielove87

        617d

        @Anthea I really appreciate that

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