Caught my almost-boyfriend texting his ex at 3am

He's not finished with his ex. If that's ok with you then keep seeing him. If not see it for what it is a huge red flag and move on

I would try honestly and openly communicating with him before you do anything. Let him know that it bothers you!! And if he doesn’t stop or tries to make a bunch of excuses, you’ll know he’s probably not the one for you.

I was in this same situation. We hung out every day and acted like a couple but only when we were alone. He didn’t want the labels and didn’t want other people to know. If what you want is a clear relationship, then you deserve someone who knows that they want to be with you, and makes you their priority. It sounds like you won’t get that from him. When a guy really likes you, he has no problem blocking his exes. It hurts a lot at first, but you will be so much happier with someone who has the same wants in a relationship.

Leave him alone. Because like you said you don’t have a label so who he talks to isn’t anyone’s concern but his. That’s the thing with the “no labels” and “no titles” it sucks but it’s the truth