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Struggling with Fertility: Feeling Alone and Helpless

sully2002

517d

my husband and I are trying but it's been really difficult. I know I have fertility problems but I don't know if he does and he won't get checked. If I knew it wasn't just me then I would feel like it's not all my fault.i don't know what to do.

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    • sully2002

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      thanks.. I have a lot of trauma based on pregnancy/having kids so its hard for me to not freak out or over think about it.. my bio mom didn't care for me and used me for a place to stay with other family and friends who felt sorry for me and I took care of her and I've gotta pregnant but had an early miscarriage and it hit me really hard and still does hurt me a lot... I honestly think I would be a great mom but I'm also really scared because of what happened to me... But thank you for the advice and everything!

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    • sully2002

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      thanks.. I have a lot of trauma based on pregnancy/having kids so its hard for me to not freak out or over think about it.. my bio mom didn't care for me and used me for a place to stay with other family and friends who felt sorry for me and I took care of her and I've gotta pregnant but had an early miscarriage and it hit me really hard and still does hurt me a lot... I honestly think I would be a great mom but I'm also really scared because of what happened to me... But thank you for the advice and everything!

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    • NatalieJane

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      This is definitely not you're fault! ❤️❤️ I wish you good luck too💕

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      • sully2002

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        @NatalieJane thanks I can't help thinking it is sometimes but I'm getting better with it

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    • Irelan

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      It's not your fault whether you have fertility problems or not. Sometimes it takes a while. Maybe not. Keep yourself sane, I'll tell ya. Don't place all the guilt on you and talk to someone if you have to. Talk to your husband how your feeling. Your mom maybe. A sibling if you have one. Give it time. You can't beat yourself up because of this. Have hope. I wish you luck.

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      • sully2002

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        @Irelan thanks for the advice... Im trying to work on the things I can do and try not to focus on the things I can't

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