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dovey

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how do i stop pushing everyone away? its my instant reaction to any sort of bad thing but i can’t stop doing it. i always feel worse after doing it but i can’t help it.

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    • Mistaken_Cloud

      773d

      I happen to do the same thing whenever everything gets overwhelming and I can’t handle people anymore. What I do is I take some time to myself away from said person and think about whatever I can. If someone did something to you to make you feel that way, you may not be completely healed from it which causes you to push people away. (That’s what I believe because I’ve done the same thing and been through it many times) if that helps any 😅 but I believe in you. You got this and if anything you can always message me on here if you ever want to talk to me about whatever is bothering you 🤗

    • lolopie3333

      773d

      It happens but you have to be mindful that you deserve people who love you despite all your struggles, and anyone who helps you through those is a keeper.

    • JessJesse

      773d

      Yuki, I try to do the same thing but my partner does not understand in the slightest. Were you ever in that situation or do you have any advice?

    • Mistaken_Cloud

      773d

      I happen to do the same thing whenever everything gets overwhelming and I can’t handle people anymore. What I do is I take some time to myself away from said person and think about whatever I can. If someone did something to you to make you feel that way, you may not be completely healed from it which causes you to push people away. (That’s what I believe because I’ve done the same thing and been through it many times) if that helps any 😅 but I believe in you. You got this and if anything you can always message me on here if you ever want to talk to me about whatever is bothering you 🤗

    • dovey

      773d

      its both most of the time, but more so of stuff that i do. i feel like if i don’t let people help when i’m doing badly then they can’t hurt me.

    • Gingeralamode

      773d

      By pushing away, do you mean by something you do or are they overwhelmed by your struggle?

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