Losing Friends: Is It Just Me?

I 2 friends whom are getting married soon but they don't check up on me I text them occasionally and they don't always respond. Then I have this other friend whom won't make time for me his excuse is he's busy (he's been saying that for months) his recent one is he doesn't want commitment but he checks in on me. Another friend I have is already built on a bad foundation cuz my stepmom recommended I talk to him she also kept saying that we'd make a great couple when I'm not physically attracted to him.

I'm in the same boat

I totally understand! I get that way too! But I'm also anti-social & they respect that. But when I feel that way I think of all of our interactions together. Also if it gets to be too much I ask them directly. I'm not going to lie tho, some people you think are friends are not or are only "work friends" or any other social place you interact with them regularly. I learned that in February after thinking I was friends with these 2 people for 4 years & then 1 of them that became my supervisor had HR tell me basically "she's your supervisor not your friend" but then she's friendly with me & it got me so confused & hurt. But I came to the conclusion: if they want to play me like we're friends & then don't want to be my friends then I don't need them & they're toxic behavior in my life. In the end you've gotta make a choice to do what's best for you!

I also want to confront some of them about basically forgetting I exist