Struggling to Find a Job and Feeling Misunderstood

i never leave the house....i just dont see a reason....i understand i need a job but i just cant get one....its not like i dont apply.....i cant even get an interview even though ive applied to 100s if not 1000s of places over the course of like 4 years....i finnally got 1 phone interview....but my luck is the worst and my phone got shut off the night before the interview....i got it turned back on 2 days later but wouldnt ya know it they had already filled the position....i dont know what to do because its getting to the point where my family doesnt believe anything i say....its like they all think im just not trying and love living under my parents thumb....i get how someone from the outside would think that about me but not my family....