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Hi this has taken me a few days to talk about this but I need help and I can’t live this way and I need some advice anything helps. So my problem is I’ve had a very hard and intense fight with my best friend and this was at a hotel because we where at vacation with my family with her. I asked to talk to her twice at the hotel but just “NO” so I stopped trying. Then she blocked me on Snapchat, and TikTok when she got home. I have other accesses to her but I don’t know what to do and I’m scared to talk to her because I know she will say she doesn’t want to talk and it might just make things worse because she’s mad. I’ve let her cool off for 2 days now we got home a day ago though. Please someone help me it’s so hard without my best friend I just don’t know what to do please anything will help!
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Yeah of course! You're still trying to make an effort to talk without pushing and now that you've opened that door you just wait for her to come to you when she's ready
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Hey as long as you are both remembering that any relationship, including a friendship requires work from both end sometimes and it's good you're giving you're effort to fix what happened
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Thankyou so much :) I really am trying to make them feel comfortable and like I’m not trying to force them because we have been best friends for so long and we had such a great relationship I just can’t loose them
Thankyou for this and before you sent this I messaged her and said “ (their name) I was just reaching out to see if you where open to talking or ever will be and if you just need time or if you don’t want to work it out. I have cooled down and I am ready to talk if you are please let me know.” They responded and said “i’m going to need a few days to think things over. i do want to talk about it.” I said “Ok thank you so much for that please let me know when your ready take your time.” Do you think that was a ok response?
If she has you blocked it is a clear boundary being set. Unfortunately the right thing to do is to leave her be until the situation changes. If you see her in person try to give a smile or a wave or in passing ask if you could talk over text and it creates an initiation that doesn't cross the boundary set but reopens the option of talking it out for her
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