Feeling Undesirable: Need Advice

I wasn't in any relationships until I was an adult. There's no rush to be with someone. The right one will find you when it's the right time.

I know that feeling. But the right person will find you when you least expect it.

It's taken me a long time to realize if someone can't see how much of a catch I am with my quirks they aren't worth my time. I never even had my first relationship until I was 17 and I didn't even really like him. I was just tired of being single throughout my teenage years. I felt like no one liked me or wanted me either. Now 8 years later and I'm about to celebrate my 1st anniversary. There's been some heartbreak in between but there's plenty of time to figure out who you are and what you want in a partner. Find out what is non negotiable for you. Don't be afraid to be picky because there might be guys in the future who want your attention but aren't healthy for you. It's better to know what you want than get stuck in an abusive relationship just for the sake of not wanting to be lonely.