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Feeling Sad After a Mutual Breakup

poodlelover28

523d

well my fiancée and I of 1 and half years have broken things off. Technically I broke up with her, but it appeared to be mutual. She somewhat admitted that she had been feeling the same way for a while. Things were once great but she just stopped giving me attention after about 1 year and I just couldn't take being ignored anymore. She was always on her phone and TV until the time she went to sleep. I'm so incredibly sad even though it was my choice. I just feel like I had no choice anymore. There was nothing left to the relationship. I could really use someone to talk to.

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    • Waterlemon

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      I can relate. i’ve been in a relationship where everything was perfect and then suddenly something changed and eventually I had to end things- although it hurt me. i’m so proud of you for taking this step. it’s important for you to be proud of yourself too. it’s hard, but it’s better for you emotionally and you deserve someone who would rather spend time with you than their phone/tv. I don’t get on here often, but my messages are open.

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    • Ebbylynn

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      I have a buddy going through the same thing, only thing I keep thinking to say is to him, a good thing to keep in mind, that was the best way to end, 89% of people would self-sabotage the relationship by eaither becoming toxic to one another, or cheating. It still hurts, however they still thought of you as human and not some toy to be jerked around. 💕

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    • Waterlemon

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      I can relate. i’ve been in a relationship where everything was perfect and then suddenly something changed and eventually I had to end things- although it hurt me. i’m so proud of you for taking this step. it’s important for you to be proud of yourself too. it’s hard, but it’s better for you emotionally and you deserve someone who would rather spend time with you than their phone/tv. I don’t get on here often, but my messages are open.

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      • poodlelover28

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        @Waterlemon thank you so much!

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    • Saturn_grey

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      I'm very sorry this happened. I know how hurtful it feels to have your partner not seeming interested in you and ignoring you for something else all day. My messages are open if you need anything. ♡

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