Feeling like a failure in all aspects of life

darling you are not failing i can promise you that. i’ve felt this way so so many times. (especially with my ex boyfriend). we broke up bc he said that my mental health was too much to handle, so i felt like a burden. but after a few days of crying and feeling sad i felt a lot better about myself. i didn’t have that constant anxiety of trying to make someone happy even though i was struggling so hard. my dad is the way your mom is and tells me that stuff too all of the time. i try to avoid him as much as i can, and talk to my friends on the phone and keep myself distracted. and remember it was her decision to have you and that’s something she can never take back. i also like to write down some good affirmations about myself. you are beautiful. you are loved. you are doing everything you can do. you are trying your best. you are here for a purpose my dear. i am here to talk whenever. feel free to reach out if you need a friend to talk to. im just a message away 💕

i just want to say that you're not failing. you were dealt bad cards (for example: your mother) and you are doing your best. that isn't failing at all

Manifesting helps me. I look in the mirror and I I myself everyday I am beautiful i am smart I am worthy. Tricks your brain into thinking positively not negative. Ur saying your bf isn't happy with you?? Definitely leave. Don't waste ur energy. And ur parents don't have to stay in your life forever. Ur mom sounds like a b**

Sounds like my mother. The great thing about growing up, is you don't have to have those people in your life anymore. ❤️ I'm 37, my parents are completely out of my life (like they don't even know where I live). She told me many of the things yours is telling you. I know it's hard when you're in the midst of it, but you won't always have to put up with her abuse. She is protecting her own self hate on you. I'm a mom myself now, of 3 kids aged 5, 9, and 13. I would never in a million years tell them those things, as they are not true - for ANY parent. You are worthwhile and you deserve love and respect. I'm so sorry you're not getting that at home. Feel free to message me whenever, I am an honorary Mom to many and I love being able to give the support I never had to others. ❤️I promise, things DO get better - so much better!

It sounds like your mother is projecting her own insecurities onto you and its taking a toll on you. Im so sorry your in that position. Fortunatly that situation isnt going to last forever and yohr feelings will pass. Im so proud of you for sticking through it becuase i know my mom was a devil, and you just gotta learn to play the fiddle. Best of wishes, dm me if you ever need to scream it out.