Struggling with BPD in my Relationship

I'd just ask him if he's truly okay with it. I ask my boyfriend a bit too much if it's actually okay that he has to deal with it, and he has always reassured me that loving me is worth it. I'm sure yours thinks the same. Sometimes all you gotta do is ask to get the reassurance you need

I also have a partner like that, I have told him on multiple occasions that if he wants to find someone else, he can, I know its hard to deal with someone who has BPD... But he doesn't, he constantly reassures me that he won't leave, I won't wake up one day and find him out of my life... if you express these thoughts to him, maybe you two can figure something out