Dealing with a Breakup: Feeling Lost and Dull

Also going through a break up and struggling to keep the distance from my ex as we are toxic and not in a good place to continue the relationship

I know it may seem redundant, but it really does go away after a while. However, I’m the type of person who needs help along the way. If left to my own devices, my break up would have been REALLY bad on me. I created a new friendship with a guy who just wanted to support me and make me happy, be there for me, all that jazz. I told him all the time it was strictly platonic, and he knew I still had feelings for my ex, holding out hope he’d come back. I’m that timeframe, I ended up falling in love with that guy, and now we’re married as of this year. I didn’t necessarily replace my ex, but I gave myself a chance to be happy with someone who actually cared about me.

Same situation with me as well. I’ve found surrounding myself with close friends to have an honest conversation about the break up was therapeutic for me. The first week after a break up can be pretty tough. Feel free to message me, you’re not alone in this, okay?

I’m so sorry, it is important to remember that these feelings and this stage of life is temporary!!!!! you may feel horrible today, and that is okay, but know that it isn’t gonna last forever. you will feel better and get to enjoy things again! just take it day by day, feel your emotions, but focus on doing things that make you happy ❤️

Hang in there