I just went through a breakup, where the person and I had no contact for a month and then within 4 days of having contact they broke up with me. This was on the 3rd it is now the 25th and they just blocked me a few days ago. She got mad because i posted an instagram post on what would’ve been our three months with the caption of “ •5•22• |a new chapter|” i didn’t think much of it since it was pictures of me and a friend and a hike i had gone in earlier that day. She sent me messages stating she was “glad i was fucking moving on” when i wasn’t and i still haven’t. I don’t know what to do. I feel like every part of me has been ripped away and like a part of me has been taken away. She made me whole and was the love of my life. I’m just wondering why was i such a bad person that her and so many others have left me. Am i the problem? Did i cause all of this to happen and always had it coming for me? idk just overthinking
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
you're definitely not the problem. it sounds like she was the toxic one in the relationship, even after it ended. And this is just my own two cents, but I dont think she really has the right to get upset about you being in a new relationship (that she assumed) when SHE'S the one who went ghost then broke up with you out of the blue. Sounds like a dodged bullet to me.
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