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I think I need some advice with this. (tw for venting a bit) I want to cut off my best friend. We've been friends for a year, but starting from a few months ago they started hanging out with different people and got tired of comforting me (I was going through a breakup at the time and I'm still dealing with it). Eventually I found out that they started dating someone, posted indirects about what I was posting, and accused me of ghosting them. The reason they said that was because I didn't answer to their message saying how they we're hanging out with their friends when I was at my lowest. I was suicidal, jealous, and feeling tired. So I didn't reply to their message, because I felt like they were rubbing it in my face. But then all of this leaded to me waiting for their message and them waiting for my message, so it was a weird situation. I know I should be happy for them, and they used to tell me how I helped them a lot mentally but they also used my words against me saying that "you told me to take care of myself, look how wrong that makes me look". I feel like an asshole, and I think I should just disappear from their life. Our last interaction was a bit recent because I had a panic attack and I began blocking/removing them on everything. They eventually added me on discord, asking why I did that but once I opened discord their messages were gone, meaning they deleted it. After that I didn't say anything and nothing happened. I don't know what I should do. I feel so weak with all of this. I feel used and betrayed. My mother tells me it would be the best to block them but my dad tells me that I shouldn't do anything. I would appreciate some proper advice with this because I genuinely don't know what to do.
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I understand the type of situation you're in and I'm sorry you have to go through it. Before making any big decisions it's best to talk with them directly. Get everything you feel out in the open and worked out before cutting them off. That way if you do decide to move on you won't have any regrets, you'll know you did your best and made the decision that was best for you. Whatever you decide, good luck dear.
@Akemi thanks so much. I did try to talk to them before (when i found out we both were waiting on messages) but that conversation felt more like an argument (and that was when they accused me of ghosting them). I don't really know if I want to talk to them again. It's not a bad idea at all but I'm really scared that I might mess up and make things more sour between us. I'll try and think about this though, I'm still afraid if they lash out on me or I get too upset.
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