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After I finished my semester, I seem to be very anxious. I really like this guy and we met up before and we had a really good time... He was extremely sweet and he said in the future he was gonna ask me out again. At the time, I was still in college and I was on spring break so that's how I got to meet him. Anyway, I decided to focus on my studies and mentally feel better (but that didn't work out the way I thought it would). I was ready to talk to him since I'd message him over the weekend saying I missed him and loved him, etc. He would say the same things back. As of recently, I talked to him a day ago because I haven't heard a response for a while so I felt like I was bothering him. He's been acting differently... such as not being affectionate and open. He says he's going through some spiritual warfare, and he wants to get back on track with God, which is totally okay with me! (Since I do believe in God). But, uh... it seems very awkward to talk to him and I want to talk to him but now it's like he doesn't want to talk? I am unsure how to feel about this because I was very excited to talk to him again, and I wanted to talk about when we would meet up again. That unfortunately did not happen... I just feel heartbroken? I guess, more like a little stung since we haven't talked in over 6-7 weeks. I really love the guy but it's just overall confusing, I suppose. I am just not sure what to do as of right now since he is going through challenging things as well... Any advice?
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Love shouldn't hurt..if it does, it may be something else..Drs oath..first do no harm..Being reasonable is the first duty of love..the 2nd is to require others to be reasonable..if they're not..its not love. Try n ignore him and build a happier life fir yourself..then someone healthy will be attracted to you and by you..lm talking to myself here..been stung very recently too..l was grieving the loss of my husband and thought l could short circuit the pain..instead now l have 2 losses to get over. Not fun..l need to wait till lm properly healed..so l attract a whole happy person too. All the best love..be glad you can still love..n not get cynical or cold..n shrivel up. Xxx ooo hugs R
I was in a similar situation as you last year! I was in love with this guy & he said he felt the same, talked about wanting a family with me. Then he ghosted me for days and later said he owed me no explanation. That really hurt, and I still think about him. The only advice I can give is: if you really love him, give him space and if he really loves you he will come back to you. If you two never come back together it isn’t meant for you two to be together. There is someone out there who will love you, it might be him, or it might be someone else! I hope you’re loving yourself in the meantime 💕
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@roaring20s Yeah, I might give him some time :) He's not completely ignoring me but he hasn't really talked to me..?? Kind of annoying but I was doing the same thing when I was on my break to focus on my studies and mental health. But yes, most definitely I will take care of myself. 💗
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