Partner Criticizes My Food Choices

That’s abusive behavior. If this isn’t the first time it’s happened, you might want to look into leaving. Especially if you have talked to him about this before. Yelling at you for things that aren’t your fault is abusive.

He sounds very abusive toward you I would get out of that relationship sooner rather than later. You don’t deserve that. None of this is your fault it’s all on him

You didn’t deserve being treated like that. No matter how he’s feeling, he shouldn’t be nasty when you do something for him or anytime.

Over the years those are some things I just can't tolerate, not even once. If you want to be in my life on any level, do not talk down to me, or bring negatively into my space. No one deserves that.

Sounds like you need to make him disappear....