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What little victories do you celebrate?

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    • Bre19

      310d

      @archerinnit amazing

    • Angelks2323

      310d

      When I am patient with my daughter. I am also very proud of the times when I see my daughter feeling content, happy, or safe.

    • SecondChance

      311d

      Being alive

      • Angelks2323

        310d

        @SecondChance it’s not easy, so it’s definitely worth congratulating yourself for. Hope you keep doing and finding the things that keep you around ❤️

    • Ash.G

      347d

      I celebrate everything. Even if I have to celebrate alone because no-one else seems to see my small improvements.

      • Angelks2323

        310d

        @Ash.G I can relate, and it feels lonely. But you’re very strong for recognizing and praising your own progress. I believe you’ll find people who appreciate your hard work and presence ❤️

    • Jazzy78

      350d

      All of them! Anything that is a 1% improvement or more. Considering I couldn't walk or talk properly 4 years ago I'm so happy to celebrate anything.

    • scrow7

      354d

      Eating

    • jamiie

      354d

      getting out of bed

    • SueLaBear

      369d

      Any day I don't wake up in pain or with a raging migraine. Because that happens almost every day

    • T.Baily655

      371d

      I have been trying not to be so self critical and do self care for myself. I have celebrated getting medication for my ADHD and I had an intake appointment for therapy. The next goal I have is learning to live myself more and to be less negative in general.

    • Tracks

      374d

      Good question. I was in a accident when I was 26, its been 15 yrs now so far, and I feel like I can’t do anything anymore on my own.

    • Eledgedbunny

      375d

      Getting a shower, using my skincare routine

    • SilverLady

      386d

      Sometimes it's just getting out of bed. But my kids make every day worth it.

    • The_Pretzel7

      386d

      Getting through rape and abuse from the ones I thought I could trust, how strong I've become despite all that's happened from it & currently realising that it stuffed up my life quite a bit and moving past it, taking it as a lesson in my everyday life

    • LilyUnicorn

      393d

      Since I found out my back is broken I am still grateful I am still able to walk around. Who knows for how long one bump and I'm I'm a wheelchair?

    • WolfieWolf

      397d

      the days I can get up, and go outside to have genuine fun

    • thathippiechick

      400d

      When I finally can get up and shower after a lengthy depressive state. 🤗

    • dodge

      406d

      finishing a bowl sometimes and doing my work

    • probablysleeping

      406d

      Getting up and sitting at my desk to work, getting any chores done, taking the dog out! I find the little things tough at the moment, so I need to be kind to myself and celebrate even small achievements 😊

    • elvendork

      407d

      Showering, brushing my teeth, putting my clothes away, eating without my body having a bad reaction

    • lonelypotato13

      407d

      Getting out of bed

    • Scarlett.night

      407d

      Learning how to walk again due to the massive amount of time put asleep in hospital ❤️‍🩹

    • Nightshxde

      407d

      Working

      • Scarlett.night

        407d

        @Nightshxde preach!

    • Kookieee

      407d

      showering

    • Seae

      409d

      Remembering to get a little exercise in, like a short walk with the dog, or some squats (with support, don’t have the balance otherwise). Also, remembering not to overdo it when I do so. 🙃

    • Marjo

      410d

      When I complete any project around the house!

    • pandaqueen

      410d

      Not eating all the snacks in the house when I get to work from home.

    • almondia

      411d

      Showering, working hard, resting. I don't always take very good care of myself or have a great life-work balance but I'm getting better at it and I'm so proud of myself for it :D

    • CoffeeWithIce

      411d

      Doing my homework

    • MissSim

      412d

      Taking meds, cleaning up the room, showering!

    • phaed

      413d

      turning in an assignment, cleaning my room, eating a full and healthy meal, going to bed early

    • florals.and.fatigue

      413d

      Showering, sitting up in bed, knowing my limits, standing up for myself when people won't accommodate my needs.

    • Picklelover21

      413d

      Showering, eating, focusing on one task

    • LexaPeach91

      414d

      Getting dressed, eating, brushing me teeth and showering.

    • Babegirl2012

      416d

      Being able to move with out hurting

    • LE95

      422d

      moving more. i stay lazy and unmotivated all the time. lately, it has actually been giving me happy when i do something.

    • deardiary

      422d

      anything that involves challenging my anxieties 🤗

    • hurt_copain

      424d

      Taking a poo is very important and special to me when it happens 🙌

    • Samlovesham

      424d

      When I get a school assignment done :) (it’s been very hard for me to concentrate on school so this is why it’s a victory for me >:) )

    • Vengefulgayunicorns

      425d

      When I do the all the dishes instead of focusing on my hyperfixation.

    • JumpingMouse

      426d

      Having a nice conversation with someone

    • Captain_Honey

      474d

      Sometimes I have to celebrate simply making it to my "appointment"(class, work and so on)

    • luminala

      474d

      doing anything creative like fashion design ideas or composing music orrr painting original work

    • avian

      474d

      getting chores done or remembering to eat

    • zofranfilledzebra

      474d

      Completing meals

    • Britt

      475d

      That is awesome. I'm coming up on my 7 month mark, but my migraines are coming back so for me it's either one or the other. 🙄🙄

    • BrandonSay

      475d

      Remembering to take and log my meds and not have a seizure and I believe I haven't had one since September 🎉🎉

    • KittyGreen

      475d

      Not having any arguments for a whole week

    • howell

      475d

      Having no migraines for more than a week!

    • SEVIN

      475d

      Getting dressed

    • MzsBrownie94

      476d

      cleaning the dishes

    • chaotic_bi_mess

      476d

      getting up in the morning :))

      • Bre19

        311d

        @chaotic_bi_mess great job!

    • Horses5284

      486d

      Everything little thing I can do independently #cerebralpalsy

    • Bunny73

      488d

      Remembering to eat at least one meal

      • Bre19

        311d

        @Bunny73 that's amazing yess!

    • Ash.G

      488d

      I celebrate brushing my teeth every day for more than a week.

    • AspiringArchitect

      488d

      Waking up

    • Midnightfox

      489d

      Trying to keep out of hospital it's been year now and get out of bed and have at least 2 meals a day.

    • Bombus_Flavifrons

      489d

      Being able to cook a solid meal! Makes me feel so accomplished and healthy

      • Bre19

        311d

        @Bombus_Flavifrons that's great!

    • lune_mermxid

      489d

      Things like getting out of bed, drinking water, dedicating to hygienic and skin care routines. I have my days where I feel like I don't have time or I just feel dead inside.

    • Georgeisleaening

      494d

      Drinking water because most days that hurts

      • Bre19

        311d

        @Georgeisleaening yess!

    • Gaz

      494d

      I stopped having to take my meds nightly!!! I have forgotten about them :))))!!!

    • Mouse12144

      495d

      I’m currently on a weightloss journey to get to a healthy weight , so every lb or so that I loose I celebrate a little

    • Stormcloud_Phantom

      495d

      Just.. waking up. And getting out of bed.

    • bellacourse

      495d

      Staying alive

    • yumzy199725

      509d

      Waking up every day! 🙌🙏

    • Sevyn0Sevyn

      510d

      I only took a 10 minute emotional breakdown to process a situation and was able to communicate my needs without breaking down again.

    • Faith._Regina

      510d

      Doing homework

    • italianxpeaches

      511d

      Getting up, getting dressed, brushing my teeth... Doing things I need to do for other people online and taking a shower at night. It's not enough for some people but it is for me.

    • kmkrs

      511d

      brushing my teeth. getting up, being a little productive instead of not at all. resting. feeling myself emerge on the other side of a dark tunnel :} everything ebbs and flows, the victories will come (or maybe you’re making them right now.)

    • Sapphire34

      511d

      Taking a, shower and getting dressed

    • DariaFae

      511d

      Getting out of bed

    • royalty

      511d

      Being able to do my full shower and skincare routine is definitely a victory for me. Most days I'm lucky to just be able to shampoo and condition my hair.

    • lostinbmore

      512d

      I never remember to celebrate them. Usually too obsessed with the failures.

      • tripleespresso

        511d

        @lostinbmore same!

    • Kupkake96

      512d

      Something I’ve always struggled with is weight- I lose it like nothing but have such a hard time gaining it back…so anytime I weigh myself and the number goes up I celebrate

    • sunny13

      513d

      Life

    • Skyfire

      513d

      When I've been backed up for an excruciating amount of time and you finally get diarrhea and totally eradicate a whole freaking week of meals in a matter of minutes... truly magnificent 🙌

    • Deep_Feelings

      513d

      I’m working on radical acceptance and self-forgiveness, healing my inner child.

    • hydroepilepic21

      513d

      I exersized today

    • MewMewMew

      513d

      Waking Up, Surviving The Day

    • colourfulburrito

      513d

      Making my bed, remember to change my underwear, brushing my teeth, washing my hair and completing a whole day of college.

    • Something_Strange

      517d

      Cooking on the stove without anything going wrong

    • SalineTurnip

      518d

      I celebrate all small victories. Putting away clothes, showering, making myself a cup of coffee, engaging in hobbies. Even getting out of bed is celebrated. (Getting on this app counts too.)

      • NanN

        412d

        @SalineTurnip Wow... this is me as well. The smallest of activity, on my bad days are huge. If I get a good day in a week it's such a blessing. I push myself to do things, like go to the physical therapy pool, and just be in the warm water. Really, just being alive from one day to the next is pretty amazing.

    • archerinnit

      523d

      I wake up in the morning. And I'm able to get up some mornings. It isn't always easy, especially with the way things are going at the moment, but I know that not many people can do that. And to those who arent able to, I'm rooting for you. You deserve so much love for waking up and I'm so proud of you 💕💕💕💕💕💕

      • Bre19

        310d

        @archerinnit amazing

    • Oouchthathurts

      523d

      I celebrate that I showed up for the day. Because everyday is a constant struggle.

      • Bre19

        310d

        @Oouchthathurts yess!!!

    • JXARabbit

      523d

      Write myself a note of praise and mail it to myself to receive later in the week as a fun reminder.

    • Pulvi

      523d

      Eating a meal that doesn't make me have a allergic reaction

    • notmia

      523d

      Going to class (even if I'm late)

    • Eren2273

      523d

      Getting out of bed these days because it's so hard

    • sleepyhippo

      525d

      When I'm house-sitting and the cat that is supposedly more shy comes to purr in my lap- especially when she did that when I was feeling down about myself. Reminded me that even though I struggle animals still seem to like me and I see that as a huge win.

    • sonicobsesinter

      525d

      I took my medications today! 🙌💕

    • YourLeftKidney16

      525d

      I made a to-do list and even if I end up not doing anything on it, being alive is good enough for a day.

    • nalabean

      526d

      making it through each day sober and going one day at a time

    • Kittypop

      526d

      When our super shy rescue cat comes out of her shell some more 🥹

      • CatMamaForever

        398d

        @Kittypop kitties are such a reflection of us in so many ways.

    • hydroepilepic21

      534d

      Talking to my brother about things I can't talk to my parents about.

      • Cowboy_frog

        518d

        @hydroepilepic21 very important & glad u have him to talk to

    • Sincerely

      534d

      Getting through the day. 🙌

    • Freddi

      535d

      Going a full day medicated, hydrated, and not having to sleep an excess amount to recover from both dry coughs, and burnout symptoms!

    • SkylerRose

      551d

      Controlling my anger and getting through each and everyday.

    • EternalEyes

      552d

      God introduce me to some new people and I was able to make some new friends to comfort me

    • sleepyhippo

      552d

      Remembering to take my meds, and if I make it through a day without sensory overload or a meltdown or shutting down that's HUGE.

    • ashbear2022

      553d

      Latley a shower more than 2 times a week is a HUGE victory.

      • Bre19

        352d

        @ashbear2022 congrats

    • kittyrose

      553d

      When I have moments that aren't consumed by anxiety or when I have enough of an appetite to actually eat something!

    • canadaisntreal

      553d

      it can be hard for me to celebrate my victories, but things like brushing teeth, taking a shower (especially one that’s not 30 minutes long), getting out of bed before 11:30 on weekends, or doing even a little bit of schoolwork.

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    • deardiary

      555d

      getting out of the house 😎

    • HarryPotter

      555d

      When I can have a normal conversation with one of my teachers without awkwardly walking away

    • Mrs.Marquez

      555d

      When I can put my pants on without falling over

      • Poohbear36

        426d

        @Mrs.Marquez 👍 🤗

    • ICanRelateBro

      557d

      I wish everyone in this thread the very best 🫶 I love to see so much kindness and understanding going around.

    • Viynyl

      564d

      Being comfortable with myself to leave the house. I used to ve very embarrassed leaving my house because I have mildly severe Tics and use mobility aids and the general public was a place I felt very unsafe, but I've gotten better and have pushed myself to go out more and enjoy life as best I can givin I have all of my medical tools/meltdown items with me and I always go out with another person to make it easier, and I can feel at leaste some safety.

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    • SomeKindaKid

      564d

      This is TMI but when my IBS-M doesn’t act up LMAO. If I keep a very careful diet everything works just fine and it’s 100000x better than the C or D

    • Ash.G

      564d

      I accept C's on a test as a win.

    • Bre19

      565d

      Getting up and taking care of myself

    • Wanderprone

      568d

      That ability to feel joy when my favorite song comes on the radio and I actually feel happy and connected enough to belt out the lyrics as I’m driving.

    • Hellokittyprincess

      568d

      getting out of bed going to work

      • Bre19

        354d

        @Hellokittyprincess good job

    • Thumpz

      569d

      I had less pain yesterday after physical therapy the day before than the day after PT the session before that.

    • wyvernprince

      570d

      Going a full day without collapsing

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      • Bre19

        352d

        @wyvernprince congrats

    • pinky3

      570d

      The times when I can go somewhere by myself without feeling anxious.

      18

    • kittycrime

      570d

      Today marks one month sober for me, hopefully I can celebrate a little bit

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      • Bre19

        354d

        @kittycrime congrats

      • GreenEyeGoblin

        425d

        @kittycrime I would love to know how you celebrate sober if you feel comfortable sharing, it's something I've really struggled with & find my go too's are sugar & spending sprees, which aren't always healthy for me.

      • Cece1989

        555d

        @kittycrime congratulations!! Incredible!

      • Hellokittyprincess

        568d

        @kittycrime woot woot Good job

    • goblin49

      570d

      I finally have gained enough weight that I got to donate blood the other day! V random but something I had wanted to be able to do for a while, also a nice reminder of my progress.

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      • Bre19

        354d

        @goblin49 yay!

      • lokibabe

        401d

        @goblin49 I'm so proud of you :)

      • Cece1989

        555d

        @goblin49 ❤️

    • inzane

      570d

      ❤️

    • Dad.of.Many

      570d

      Each day I wake up still breathing is a small victory. Productive days are larger victories. Happy days and anxiety free days are huge victories.

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      • Bre19

        352d

        @Dad.of.Many yess

      • Cece1989

        555d

        @Dad.of.Many ❤️

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