Vacation Struggles: Dealing with Weight and Exhaustion

I’m on vacation this week, trying to have a grand time - however, I keep being reminded how exhausted and overweight that I am when I go to do the simplest tasks. My friends (who I’m staying with) are fantastic people, but they don’t seem to understand the struggle that I deal with every single day. My bestie often tells me, when I complain, that I either need to change “it” or not complain.