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xoxogossipgirl

540d

idk if this is social anxiety or just random but does anyone else like never know how to talk to people? like what to talk about with people and how to continue the convo and also how to make it deeper and become closer to someone ig? like wtf do ppl talk about?!?

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    • AstraDragon

      511d

      Same here. I just don't know how to communicate with others and it makes me feel alienated

    • AstraDragon

      511d

      Same here. I just don't know how to communicate with others and it makes me feel alienated

    • Olawola

      512d

      YESSSS

    • SecondChance

      512d

      Yes like battleship is the greatest movie of all time

    • Katharina

      512d

      Yup. I guess not everyone is alike. And it takes both parties to continue and find something they relate to

      • xoxogossipgirl

        511d

        @Katharina tru i just don’t know how to start it off or keep it going 😭

    • poodlelover28

      512d

      Yesss like I can be so dry sometimes if the other person isn't putting in the same or more effort. Like I don't know how to spice it up.

      • xoxogossipgirl

        511d

        @poodlelover28 FR!!!! like sometimes if i actually get the convo flowing the other person just seems uninterested so then i shut down 😔

    • ceruleanstar

      540d

      I've always thought it was caused by anxiety, though who knows but, the same thing happens to me. It's like my brain goes blank or my thoughts freeze and I can't come up with even the tiniest thing to talk about!

      • xoxogossipgirl

        512d

        @ceruleanstar IKKKKKK

    • IceGoddess

      540d

      I have started to say I have NPC energy. Most of the time I don't engage people unless they initiate first. I am really super bad at coming up with things to talk about and to say (this could be from autism, anxiety, or trauma). I can be talkative under the right circumstances tho.

      • xoxogossipgirl

        512d

        @IceGoddess literally same - i also talk to people if they approach me first but i still don’t know what to talk about - i also have been thinking i might have autism and not adhd and i was misdiagnosed but idk what to do

    • Weast

      540d

      Yesss

    • Kangarabbit

      540d

      This is a big problem I have. Unless the other person/people are the talkative type then conversation dies out very quickly. I think for me it is a combination of Autism and anxiety. I am shockingly bad at "small talk" - I just find it pointless a lot of the time!

      • xoxogossipgirl

        540d

        @Kangarabbit NO SAME i am better with talkative ppl too bc u don’t have to be the one to carry the convo

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