I've struggled with selective mutism for all my life I think. nobody understood it. I forget if I've specifically been to a doctor to be diagnosed with it. I've been seeing a therapist for 4 years. I've been depressed since my mom died 7 years ago. I might be completely mute but im not sure how to tell. I really hate talking and I don't want to have a job that requires me to. any suggestions? I mean no talking at all also!