Struggling with Birth Control Side Effects

I just started Xulane and it’s making me feel really sick with nausea and stomach ache. I’m trying this bc it’s a patch and not a pill. The last few birth controls I’ve tried are pills and they all make me nauseous and can’t wait to see if it passes. I’m really discouraged bc I don’t know what else to do. I need to be on something but I refuse to use an IUD and not ready to have a hysterectomy. I don’t want to go on Lupron bc I already struggle with chronic mood disorders and that could make it worse. I’m at my wits end.