Struggling to Heal After a Painful Breakup

Ever since me and my ex broke up I've been in a major downward spiral. I had to move back to my home state after being away for 13 years. it's been 3 months and the loneliness is crushing me. I'm struggling to heal, especially with the fact that things are going so amazing for my ex. She destroyed me just so she could be with her ex who she is getting married to. She got to keep the dog and bearded dragons that we adopted together and I got nothing but a major relapse with my mental health. I don't know who I am or what to do to be okay.

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MadAlice

1y ago

Wow that sounds really rough I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going so great in your mind just consider this she left you for somebody else and you know sounds like maybe she wasn't that great not you. Remember that no matter how difficult things are they will pass but that also applies to how good things are as well they pass too. There's so many people here who have been through similar situations if you need someone to talk to just feel free to message

FreeSeeker

1y ago

After an 18 year marriage went to divorce, I lost it all. You have to reinvent yourself, find the true you that was there before her, during, and now after. Life does go on, it's up to the true you to decide how that's going to turn out. Don't dwell on what's lost, focus on the now and the future. It's never as bad as it seems.

sick_desire

1y ago

Seems you have a lot in common with us. I know you're pain

FTW

1y ago

Same. When my fiancee left me, I went homeless.

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