How to Stop Being So Sexual?

How do I stop being so sexual I wanna cuddle with my boyfriend and have movie night but I’m always so distracted

Your answer

Godzilla2014

2y ago

You're right. Planning takes alot of excitement out of it. I personally prefer spontaneous I also go into a bad mood without. I'm going out on a limb... Is he older?

Crystal_Rose

2y ago

yeah, im turning 24 qnd he's turning 30

Godzilla2014

2y ago

Is he always up (no pun) for the idea on movie night too or do you provoke him into it?

Crystal_Rose

2y ago

No, some movie nights it just turns into he really wants to see the movie and then he just wants to go to bed and snuggle. He also tells me in moments that he isn't horny but there is potential to get turned on if I pursue him. We just have to communicate good on it. One of my biggest problems rn is that I kinda plan sex for us which takes the romance out of it. Trying to let it be more spontaneous but one it gets to 2-3 days without I get super bitchy.

Crystal_Rose

2y ago

Sometimes telling him my urges before the movie and seeing how hw feels is helpful. If im told ahead of time that he's not in the mood qnd there's no chance of it happening then I can control myself better knowing he doesn't want it. Otherwise we make the rule that it has to wait til the end of the movie.

Godzilla2014

2y ago

Good advice

The content in this post is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

Alike is a transformative platform that goes beyond just bringing together patients; it meticulously connects individuals based on multiple critical factors, such as age, gender, comorbidities, medications, diet, and more, fostering a community of knowledge, support and empathy.

About Alike Wisdom Blog FAQ Editorial Team All Conditions All Posts All Communities

Your Privacy Stories Community Guidelines Terms of Use Privacy Policy Helplines Contact Us Group Chats Guidelines