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Babywolfy2819's Post

Babywolfy2819

Updated 10mo ago

How to Stop Being So Sexual?

How do I stop being so sexual I wanna cuddle with my boyfriend and have movie night but I’m always so distracted

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Crystal_Rose

Sometimes telling him my urges before the movie and seeing how hw feels is helpful. If im told ahead of time that he's not in the mood qnd there's no chance of it happening then I can control myself better knowing he doesn't want it. Otherwise we make the rule that it has to wait til the end of the movie.

Godzilla2014

Good advice

Godzilla2014

Is he always up (no pun) for the idea on movie night too or do you provoke him into it?

Crystal_Rose

No, some movie nights it just turns into he really wants to see the movie and then he just wants to go to bed and snuggle. He also tells me in moments that he isn't horny but there is potential to get turned on if I pursue him. We just have to communicate good on it. One of my biggest problems rn is that I kinda plan sex for us which takes the romance out of it. Trying to let it be more spontaneous but one it gets to 2-3 days without I get super bitchy.

Godzilla2014

You're right. Planning takes alot of excitement out of it. I personally prefer spontaneous I also go into a bad mood without. I'm going out on a limb... Is he older?

Crystal_Rose

yeah, im turning 24 qnd he's turning 30

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