Convince me I'm not a mess

I'm too caring/giving, I have 3 jobs and school going on, yet I still do other people's work and usually even buy people stuff out of generosity if I feel necessary, which, is a lot, and sometimes people take advantage of that, feel free to direct message me:)

My room is almost always messy. I keep a lot of daily items on my bed. Like journals, a calendar, my computer, random objects instead of putting them away because " I'll probably use them today".