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Aliesha

1y ago

Looking for a Safe Haven

Does anyone have a favourite person, the one who goes through and takes all the bad from you? one that knows you better than you know yourself? EUPD, Autism and ADHD.

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DragonLady47

1y ago

Not at all but it would be nice. I don't have anyone not even my husband is like that
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Lucy4

1y ago

No... Sounds nice though.
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Futa

1y ago

ADHD + CPTSD I had a person that didn't "count as people for the purposes of my social battery." I married them. Our marriage has been good. Ups and downs, but that happens after a decade. Through no fault of ours, they wear on my social battery now. I think it has something to do with "puppy love," the period of a relationship where the novelty and NRE are all keeping your social needs filled, which lasts anywhere from 6mo to 3yr. I hoped my special person would never drain my social battery, but, now that my touch-starvation is resolved and my touch deficit is recovered, I need more "me time" again. It was hard to recognize my need for space was increasing. I wish I had recognized it sooner because it sneaking up on me caused friction in my marriage. Now I am more aware of my feelings and needs and I can better verbalize them. It's great to have a ✨Special Person,✨ but remember to reconnect with yourself every now and then, too.
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AnimalBoy

1y ago

I have ADHD and Autism and I most definitely have a favorite person. My fiance has been a major part of my support system for as long as I've known him and it'd honestly feel weird to say he isn't my favorite considering how much we care for each other
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Len

1y ago

I have ADHD and possibly autism. My best friend is my favorite person. He totally gets me and we call each other our soulmates. We both sometimes see the world in black and white so that can be difficult, but we always get though it. He was one of the first friends I've ever cried to and he was so sweet about it (I had just met him a week before the incident I cried). We communicate really well and know when we need to give each other some space. I can't imagine my like without him
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Quinniffer

1y ago

I have a favourite person. I have EUPD, Autism and ADHD and my boyfriend is my FP. He's been there through my manic, my good, my bad and my really bad. He's talked me down multiple times and is always gentle with me. He never blames me for my outbursts or if I do something wrong. He knows me so well and knows exactly what to say all the time.

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