Parents not taking ADHD seriously

When I mentioned to my mom I might have adhd she got very emotional and said it was "another thing she missed" and that "she screwed up as a mom" so that's where that conversation went. I'll talk about it again when she's in a better place mentally.

I agree when I first got diagnosed I tried to explain to my mother and dad that some of the stuff I do I can’t control but I do apologize for because I know it’s inconvenient for them, they told me that it’s not an excuse just because it’s true and that I’ll grow out of it anyways

I’m 39 I have ADD I had my most recent shunt surgery near the end of February so I’m still recovering from it. I’ve noticed since I had the most recent surgery that I’ve had a hard time distinguishing the taste of anything I drink or eat. I just started getting my taste back this week that things are starting to taste how they are supposed to. I’ve also noticed since the surgery that I get bad muscle spasms that make my arms or legs just Jump for no reason it is a real pain during the day I can try and control it but lately it’s been really bad at night when I’m laying in bed trying to sleep. It was so bad 2 nights ago I almost fell out of my bed. If anyone has any nice suggestions I would appreciate it please and thanks.

i know how you feel, my dad gaslit me into feeling like my adhd was my fault and i chose to fall behind in school and spend my money impulsively , id say stand your ground, you know you best. be you, dont let people tell you things about yourself that they know nothing about

There’s a great website called additude.com that’s all about ADD/ADHD - they might have resources for explaining to your parents or resources you can direct them to so they can see that it’s real and really affects you

I’m 21 and in the same boat so if you find the answer please let me know.

i totally feel for you! i’m 25 and newly diagnosed as well. my mom has always written me off as careless and lazy and she still sees me as that. i don’t think they’ll ever understand. here for you tho