No Physical Sensation During Sexual Attraction

I’ve never felt anything in my v*gin* for anybody. Not boys or girls. I can be very attracted to them, think wow I want to be in bed with u, be in a relationship with u etc, and stare but I don’t feel literally anything down there and never have done. It’s sort of more mental. The thought of actual sex is kinda disgusting to me as well. Not intimacy or even acting on sexual tension but ACTUAL sex grosses me out. Idk if that’ll fade or not. Can someone tell me what’s going on?

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tatertot731

1y ago

i think i have a similar problem. i want to have sex and i have but the issue is that i rarely have an enjoyable feeling when my partner touches down there. and if i were to touch myself i feel relatively nothing ever. i hate it and i want to have sensation. and to note: i have no sexual trauma that i know of( i don’t have much memory of my childhood so can’t be 100% sure)

NonbinarySlytherin

1y ago

There is sexuality and romantic orientation. For example, I identify as panromantic as in romantically I fall for people across the gender identity spectrum. I am requissexual meaning that because of trauma I don't know what sexuality would fit but most likely it is in the asexual umbrella.

AnimalBoy

1y ago

It sounds like you have sex repulsion, which could be causing a mental block for any kind of physical arousal which can be fairly common for those who deal with sex repulsion. But some chronic conditions can also effect the nervous system and cause an arousal disorder as well, so that may be a good thing to check out if you think any of your conditions might be causing anything like that.

Livingasazebra

1y ago

I have no reason to have sex repulsion. I’m just so confused honestly

skyewalker

1y ago

do you feel external stimulation? like on your clit

Livingasazebra

1y ago

nope nothing

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