Struggling with Financial Responsibility

Money woes I feel like I get my paycheck and I get the urge to spend money. So I’m trying to be more financially responsible. But I have a journal I track expenses and I set up an extra savings account to get rid of the extra money so to say so I don’t spend it. I am ok not spending when I know I have rent or bills- but other times I’m like treat yo self and I get overwhelmed and spend. I’m not in debt or anything but I think half my problem is like growing up we didn’t spend money on stuff unless needed and now I have financial freedom and I don’t know what to do. If that makes sense. Does managing finances ever get easier?