I have a paint by numbers app and a My Little Pony coloring app on my phone. 😂 they help redirect my focus, but also they don’t require my full mental capacity so I’m able to use them while I’m watching a movie or something like that. I also have a teeny tiny Slinkie I like to play with and a hematite stone to rub. I actually keep the hematite in my car because driving gives me soooo much anxiety. My partner got me a couple of adult pacifiers too, and those help me a lot, although they definitely wouldn’t be for everyone. My therapist sent me a bunch of small vials of bubbles (like the party favor size lol) to use when I can too. They’re very distracting, which I find to be effective. Because who doesn’t love bubbles?
As I’m sure you’ve noticed, a lot of what helps me are items typically intended for children, which embarrassed me for a while, but my therapist managed to convince me that if it’s not hurting anyone, who cares?Disney shows/movies have become a go-to for me when I’m so anxious I become nonverbal. I have a bunch of stuffies and coloring books. My partner is very supportive of me and does small things like make me mac and cheeze and chick’n nuggets when I need food that makes me happy.
Having a good support system has become so beneficial for me. As well as being an open book when it comes to my mental health. Realizing my triggers and communicating them to the people closest to me has made a lot of my anxiety avoidable. For example, I don’t go to Whole Foods anymore. For some reason I have an anxiety attack every time I go. So I just don’t. 🤷♀️ My partner goes when we need our water dispenser bottles filled, and I give him a list of a few items that we need or want.
Trial and error is how I discovered 99% of these things.