How to Make Friends When You're Not a Social Butterfly

Hello, what's the best way to make friends if you can't find it in you to socialize in a public manner?

Your answer

PebbleWood

1y ago

yeah, I try but I feel like I embarrass because I act like someone I'm not. I act like a tard, not to use that meaning but I do when I'm around people, especially at work. It's like me showing that I'm just special in a way just makes me feel more comfortable.

lazydaisy

1y ago

Clubs or hobbies. Go alone and youll naturally meet people. Apps like bumble help too

PebbleWood

1y ago

but I'm not mental like that. It just comes and goes. Just being a tard seems more fitting for me. I've mainly spent my school days in focus class rooms.

PebbleWood

1y ago

I try to get into hobbies but I'm stuck with a massive addiction that I feel that makes me loose interest in trying anything new.

222steveo

1y ago

idk but at least ur not alone

PebbleWood

1y ago

thank you!

hiyabuddy

1y ago

Is there any way for you to get more comfortable being in public situations? Otherwise, I'd recommend social apps & joining online communities.

PebbleWood

1y ago

not that I've recognized. I don't know how to approach someone with out me over analyzing how a conversation is going or me thinking that I'm worth that persons time. I don't really know any social apps, never had a reason to just because I didn't have friends.

Monico

1y ago

I have a similar problem with people. I'm not sure how to push myself out of my comfort zone and find new like minded people to spend time with.

Wesj75

1y ago

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