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I had sex last night and couldn't feel anything. I didn't get physical or emotional pleasure from it but I really wanted it and my vagina was wet. I've been horny. That's never happened to me before. It hurt at first, then nothing. Later he managed to find a position where I felt something but it was incredibly numbed still and now I'm in a weird emotional funk and my body has been drained. What's happening to me? This has literally never happened before! And after I was in this weird moon where I didn't want to be touched.

    • dRiven


      Hey, it's a late reply but hopefully better than nothing. Sexual concerns are always hard because psychological impacts can be just as important as physical ones, and you need an understanding partner to help you through it. I hope things have gotten better for you since. I'm in a new relationship after being single for around 5 years, and I've been struggling sexually too. I find it hard to keep an erection, and even if I do I'm not lasting long at all once any activity actually starts. This hasn't happened to me before, and my partner feels bad about it too because she feels like she's doing something wrong. I'm sure it's just me putting pressure on myself and I should just go with the flow, but I still struggle

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Based on the context provided, it's possible that you may be experiencing a form of sexual dysfunction or arousal disorder. This could be due to various factors such as mental health issues, chronic conditions affecting the nervous system, or emotional trauma. However, this is just speculation based on the information given and it would be best to consult with a healthcare professional for a proper diagnosis and treatment.

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