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xoxobrett

451d

I’m so lonely and have no idea how to make friends

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    • ShyLovePuppet

      436d

      Ah sameeee, I can start conversations and stuff but it always goes that the other person never want to make a stronger connection and become only once in a blue moon interactions. Somehow that makes me feel even lonelier 🥲

    • ShyLovePuppet

      436d

      Ah sameeee, I can start conversations and stuff but it always goes that the other person never want to make a stronger connection and become only once in a blue moon interactions. Somehow that makes me feel even lonelier 🥲

    • chloeeeeeey

      436d

      people do care you just dont see it, life is like a rollecoaster with ups and downs like a heart beat up and down..nothing lasts forever things do get better

    • AnxiousAl

      436d

      If I killed myself no one would care

    • Cuz

      444d

      That’s very true

    • KingKoopa85

      444d

      that's totally normal, you are never wrong for thinking that way, just know that even if the first time you say hi to someone isn't what makes you who you are.

    • Crispybuffalo145

      445d

      Same. I lost all my friends because my panic disorder. Noe I have to start over and I was never good at making friends in the first place…it’s like a new job your first impression is everything

      • KingKoopa85

        445d

        @Crispybuffalo145 i don't know that i agree with that only because the people i connect with are consistent at sharing and talking, first impressions don't phase me, but that's maybe because I'm 6 foot 4 dude with huge gauges and a septum ring. I love all people. Regardless of the first impression. We are all going through something and I'm here for each and every one of you. 🧡

        • Crispybuffalo145

          444d

          @KingKoopa85 on I’m sure I’m wrong about the first impression thing, it’s just the anxiety in me that never fails to make me think it

    • KingKoopa85

      445d

      Dms are always open, anyone in this chat feel free to message me. I've met some people that i talk to every day on here

      • Cuz

        445d

        @KingKoopa85 yes how are you doing? Hope everything is well.

        • KingKoopa85

          445d

          @Cuz doing ok, thank you for asking

    • Cuz

      445d

      I think I am my best friend

    • Cuz

      445d

      Your. Right

    • Cuz

      445d

      Yes

    • 5w33t

      445d

      Same here. It's so depressing. If you live in socal I'll be your friend lol.

      • FTW

        445d

        @5w33t Where at in SoCal? I am from Ontario. I have family all over the Inland Empire.

        • 5w33t

          444d

          @FTW haha cool. Orange county 🍊

    • Cuz

      445d

      The same here I got a few friends at work we text here and there, but nothing hanging out or anything. My other friends are are on here and I have Instagram stuff like that that’s it.

    • JustHollie

      446d

      Same I have a very small circle of friends. I recently had to sever one of those really close ties the relationship had been toxic for so long but I always made excuses for her. I am completely heartbroken about it 😞

    • KittyKatKuo

      446d

      Mentally ill people could all sit on one room together, and yet still feel so alone and isolated is the crappy thing about this. However we tend to be able to nurse each others wounds and support each other as no one else will. So as we piece others together with glue while we ourselves are still falling apart till someone starts to glue us then someone else glues them etc. Mentally ill people get Mentally ill people. They know the isolation and loneliness that comes with it. But we make the best friends and supporters of our kind. Everybody's issues are different and even if we share similarities we will always have differences too.

    • Coke

      448d

      Friends really aren’t everything as long as you work on uplifting your vibrations then you’ll be able to attract the people in your life that won’t deceive you or prey on your weaknesses sending love and light 🧘🏽

    • Harlie

      448d

      Same. I wish there was a decent support group close to me where I could meet people who also struggle with some of the same things I do. I would love to have a friend to encourage each other to get out and do things occasionally or maybe start going to a gym with. It's very difficult to find friends when you struggle severely with your mental health.

    • BeanBetter

      449d

      Same dude we're alike 👍

    • AnxiousAl

      450d

      Me too I’m getting tired of life

      • Xylns86

        449d

        @AnxiousAl try just a friendly convo with a gasstation attendant

    • Jewelicorn

      451d

      Same here

      • Xylns86

        449d

        @Jewelicorn start small

    • FTW

      451d

      Same. It doesnt help im too shy to talk to anyone in person.

      • Xylns86

        449d

        @FTW start by saying hi to people

        • FTW

          449d

          @Xylns86 wow. You're a genius.

    • Xylns86

      451d

      Just be nice

      • KratomEater

        448d

        @Xylns86 not sure if this is a reply to my comment, but I’m always really nice to people. I think kindness goes a long way. It’s just with work and helping my partner start a business it’s just been impossible.

    • Lexi97

      451d

      SAME. making friends in the real world as an adult is so hard

      • KratomEater

        450d

        @Lexi97 for sure I’ve been in a new town in Alaska for 2 years and I’ve yet to make a good friend. And the ones I attempted to never held.

    • jaywun

      451d

      That resonates on a totally different level. If you ever need to talk I'm here.

      • xoxobrett

        451d

        @jaywun I really appreciate that, thank you

    • Leviross

      451d

      What part of the world are you in? 🌍🌎🌏

      • xoxobrett

        451d

        @Leviross 🇺🇸

        • Leviross

          451d

          @xoxobrett me too. If you don't mind me asking, are you gay or straight? I'm gay.

    • KratomEater

      451d

      I know this is really hard for a lot of people, but I think what helps he most is joining groups that hold your personal interest. Groups that meet up in your area. Social anxiety can especially make this difficult, but once you get to that point it can be easier than one thinks once you make contact with other people.

    • Leviross

      451d

      I'm the exact same way.

    • Sorasaves

      451d

      Same here

      • xoxobrett

        451d

        @Sorasaves virtual hug

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