Well I think my laziness can be at fault of a few different things but yes. People will tell you it's executive dysfunction and not laziness, but you can be lazy and dysfunctional, don't let anyone tell you otherwise, as long as you're being unapologetically lazy <3 Also, yes, not about boundaries or trying to take things too fast, but like, just wait 5 goddamn minutes I'm busy

i have adhd and i forget things all the time, and it comes off as lazy or pushing it off, but i also procrastinate sometimes

I definitely don't get much of anything done that I'm supposed to because I'm not medicated. I'm trying to find a psychiatrist that will prescribe me ADHD meds. I have been told I'm too much in a relationship before. That hurt more than that person will ever know.