so, i believe there are different levels of eds (1-5 i think?), and in lower levels the subluxations may be less severe even though they're still sitting out of place. they'd be easier to put back in place that way too.
my OT thinks i'm level 1, and i didn't think i'd experienced any subluxations until recently, when both she my chiro said i had a rib slightly out of place. told me that it was likely the cause of the pain i've been having with my shoulder on certain otherwise normal movements. understanding this now, i've noticed more and more times where something's out of place and causing pain. sciatica and hip pain, for example - i get it every time i walk for more than just a few minutes, or when i sit for too long. i've had (for years!) a "weird thing with my knee" where it just feels painful and like i was holding it at the wrong angle, but then changing position doesn't fix the pain (good gentle stretches can though). all of those are at least a 3 when at their most intense but i've had up to about a 6. not much of my pain from anything else goes past that either. i have fibromyalgia as well and that may affect my experience with subluxation.
i have others that just feel uncomfortable or like i have muscle tension, and with that i would be stretching to try and fix it anyway, but i notice the joint pop and suddenly it's better, which i find suspicious too. ::P i've never had a subluxation bad enough that i needed emergency care so i don't think i've had any dislocations (and i think i'd be able to see it if i did too, haha - i've only ever seen my joints look noticeably out of place a handful of times and it was never by much. dislocations tend to look very out of place, as i understand it)