Concerned about HIV, seeking advice on opportunistic infections

I’m pretty concerned that I have HIV. What were your first if any opportunistic infections? I have two OraQuick tests coming in the mail. My partner is aware of my concerns and my history (which is extensive and was risky) My friends have raised concerns that I have been sick a little too often. I have had issues with swollen lymph nodes constantly. Recurring canidida, HSV1 breaking out on odd parts of my body every other week it seems. I caught Covid, then the flu, then bronchitis back to back then pneumonia. I had to take steroids for that for practically three months straight and my skin and body had other issues from being on immune suppressors. I heal very very slowly when wounded. I’ve gotten staph and cellulitis a couple times the past few years. I’m always throwing up due to GERD, but it seems I’m also sick sometimes too with stomach bugs or otherwise. I haven’t ruled out a PCOS issue but I’m concerned these could be opportunistic as I slept with a lot of people. My lymph nodes are swollen again only on one side to the point I can’t even sleep. Just want to know I’m not crazy. At this point knowing why I’m sick would bring some relief. Some. Key word. I obviously don’t want to have it I just want to know why I’m like this.