Irregular periods is a starting factor. Dont listen to your friends, they arent liscensed professionals

I got my hormones checked by my primary care doctor, my estrogen was on the higher range of normal (286) highest I think is 300? and my testosterone was 75 (normal range under 55 for women). I stopped my birth control , which helped my periods regulate for the last 10 years, and each month after that my cycle length increased, 30,35,43,45 days ect. I began getting cystic acne on my back, jaw line (which led to me to believe it was hormone related, hence why I asked them to check) and now I haven't had a period since January and that was after a second blood test indicating my test. had gone up to 90 in 3 months. I didnt have cysts on my ovaries when I got an ultrasound but my OB said that didn't rule out the PCOS. I'm thin and have always been on the hairy side, never had regular periods even when I first started having them which is why I got on BC in the first place. I know if you're trying to get pregnant though, there is a diabetes medication that can help with that being that both PCOS and diabetes is a metabolic issue. So fix the metabolic issue, things start to regulate a little.