Frustration with Lack of Support and Understanding for Chronic Pain

my mother just refused to come with me to my appointments to help verify to Dr's what's going on. I thought she'd be more open to it, seeing that's what she had to do with my dad to get her diagnosis. I don't get how she can only understand chronic pain if it's something she's felt. she has permanent nerve damage because she wasn't taken seriously, but won't help me before I get to that point. I'm just so tired and frustrated and sick of wasting time and money on Dr's who just blow me off or assume when I say something I mean something else.