more of a vent than a question: I told my boss I need fewer hours and days because I don't have enough spoons to continue the current schedule ( I explained what spoon theory was) her response: well I get it I just don't want to work sometimes too and I can always give you a longer hours day and then another short day after. she's able bodied and I don't think I articulated my situation well enough to her. I didn't challenge the extra long day comment and now I feel stuck. How do I fix this? I want to stay at this job but I'm so frustrated right now