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desm333

756d

if I annoy someone or say something offensive or just mess up in general I want whoever it is to be 100% honest with me about it. I feel like I annoy others and they don't want to tell me. I began working at home 2 months ago and made a friend my first week. I talked to then every day and they always seemed eager to talk to me and never seemed annoyed and ik how to read people v well and I never noticed it. I woke up for work one day texted them the normal "Good morning❤❤!!" and noticed 30 mins later I was blocked. it's been 4 days and I still haven't heard from them and I'm stuck wondering what I did wrong. this isn't the first "friend" to do this to me either. I can't help but wonder if it's me.

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    • arete

      756d

      As someone who has had a mental breakdown and ghosted everyone i can say it had nothing to do with any of them i just wasn't healthy and couldn't deal. Im sorry.

    • arete

      756d

      As someone who has had a mental breakdown and ghosted everyone i can say it had nothing to do with any of them i just wasn't healthy and couldn't deal. Im sorry.

    • RyeJaack

      756d

      Unfortunately people are people. Don't assume it's you. Never assume it's you. It's human to make mistakes- and human to correct them. If you don't know a mistake then you can't work on it-therefore, not your problem, it's theirs. Even if they did have a problem with you, it's their mistake to not give you a chance to correct it. Being ghosted sucks. I've tried to not ghost people, but most people don't have that courtesy. It's usually not a mistake on the other person's part anyway. Now I don't know why they blocked you, but there's so many other things that could have happened. No chance is it purely you. None. Zip. If it's truly out of the blue, it's not you.

      • desm333

        756d

        @RyeJaack thank you for your comment. I guess I'm just a very emotional and sensitive person and I can't understand why someone would just up and do that. I just talked to them and they were fine 24hrs beforehand. It's just sad to me. But thank you again. I guess you're right I mean they didn't even give me a chance to fix it😥

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