I'm following this because I have the same problem. I used to be a shoe hoarder and I've got like 10 pairs of boots that I can't get my foot into that I could wear a few years ago. Ugh

I’m finding my feet do ok in mule type shoes now, so I’ll be trying some of those next

Honestly Crocs - they have much more than the classic style. Their sandal collection is great and stylish - I love the Tulumns and Brooklyns. I also recently got a pair of New Balance shoes that have been going well.

I like dr. Scholls

I have to wear men's Lugs.

yes!! trying to find shoes that I can reliably walk in is such a struggle. my feet swell unpredictably and every shoe I own hurts differently from day to day :( Two tips that helped me: I need a wide shoe with flexible sides and a thick sole for minimal pain, but merino wool socks (they’re so amazing) can make any shoe nearly-painless for me