yes, very relatable and not just at work too. I get this mainly with my mom, she is very stubborn and is very religious/political and I have to watch every word I say or we'll end up in an argument. it's either talk or shut up and listen. when I had my first job (I just quit a few months ago) it was great at first but slowly it made it hard to communicate with them about my hours or anything in general. My mental health was declining during the first few months and over the span of 2 years, I kept having to leave almost 4 times (~2-4 months each~) because I was being admitted to a mental hospital. they'd give me crap everytime I came back and never got to move up at all. I'd ask and they'd ignore me, they'd cut my hours, they ignored me if I asked for help. overall just felt so excluded, and it felt horrible. they made me feel like I HAD to get more hours or stay longer, knowing that I shouldn't since I was still in school and dealing with my thoughts. one time a manager thought I was ignoring him (but really it's because I had a headset). This OLD man poked me and started swearing and insulting me, saying I was the "most rude person that he's ever worked with" that I "never say anything to him" and called me "f*king disabled/deaf/blind" because I couldn't hear him talking. all I did was just say "okay☺️" and the others just watched and didn't defend me. It got to the point that as soon as I walked in into the restaurant, my chest physically hurt, felt a lump in my throat and stayed quiet. I would get home extremely drained, had to take deep breaths stopping me from crying. I had no energy, there was no communication. I had to quit, I should've looked before quitting but I didn't and I'm currently unemployed or at school. I still feel guilty sometimes for leaving but I have to realize it was the best and soon I'll find a job.