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LaveLavender10

2y ago

Feeling Left Out in Social Situations

Everytime that I either want to socialize or my friends invite me to something with a bunch of people, they all have a fun time and socialize while I'm left all alone. then later on in my mind I start to question why that I'm there in the first place and all I want to do is leave. (being alone in my opinion seems better than being somewhere where no one ever cares what you have to say or that you even exist.

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jaynox

2y ago

Communication helps so much. And if they don't hear you are they really your friends?
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jaynox

2y ago

I made a choice to tell my friends how I'm feeling and communicate. My best friend knows when I say I can't but thank you for asking that I appreciate the consideration but I mentally or physically can't.
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SourLemons

2y ago

i feel this, especially as a uni student where a bunch of my friends and their friends like to go to parties. i cannot socially function well in large gatherings, so i either end up feeling left out or having to spend a ton of energy forcing myself to socialize and "let loose." it's exhausting. i still want to encourage you though, OP, that we're not meant to go through life alone. i don't mean you have to engage in those super isolating social environments, but it's still critical that we have loving people around us who are willing to engage personally, one-to-one, with us when we need them. i hope your friends are willing to do that for you. you deserve that. sending hugs, OP ♡
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Squeezy

2y ago

I always feel like this. It’s refreshing to see someone else be able to describe the same things i feel & think

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