Tips for Feeling More Comfortable Around Others

It takes months for me to be comfortable around new people. I just talk to them or hang out with them until it feels natural. Some I feel comfortable around instantly, but if they aren't understanding, it's not worth it, in my opinion.

I think it might depend on the situation. When people understand your discomfort and give you time to come around, I feel like that is good for friendship. My mentor at work was even understanding and once she knew I had anxiety, even more so! I have 2 jobs. My first one, I'm constantly around people. This will be my 5th year here and it never got better, so I'm leaving it this month. I'm not comfortable with the customers or employees, so this obviously is just not the place for me.